人与人的 是与非，对与错 大战

在这社会里，

在地球的每一个地方，每一个角落，

甚至空气里都会弥漫着一股耐人寻味的气息。

而这耐人寻味就会导致随时都可以发生争执的可能。

就好像前几天，我周围包括我在内；

不理双亲，兄弟姐妹， 朋友，甚至老板与下属。

都发生的争执和口角。

从小事到大事， 都可以变成这些大战的武器。

伤到的，都是彼此的心灵，思想，决定等等。

我们又需要，这样无情的攻击他人吗？

在这过程中，我们为的是什么？

利益，好胜，权利，自尊心　还有呢？

这些真的比他人还重要嘛？

有什么事是不能好平心静气的好好沟通？

在这过程，有些人可能因为受不了就会做出一些决定。

而这些决定可能就会影响到很多方面，很多人。

好的话可能只是说说气话，　

严重起来可是会影响经济，人事，甚至国家上上下下。

哈哈哈。

所以，当你要面临人与人之间的大战时，

请你想一想．

想想自己，想想他人。

我知道人是自私的。

但是在你想着自私的时候，请摸摸自己良心。

问你自己，这样应该吗？

这个社会已经很多问题了，请为你自己和这个社会献一份无形的力量。

让人们不要再活在世界大战之中吧

谢谢。

Before that, I knew someone want to be a flight attendant.

However, I never know that, she is so fast to make her decision for taking a course of it.

I asked her, what you do think about this occupation and why do you want to take this course.

The answer I got from her.

“I can learn something from the course and the percentage for got the job when interview are higher.”

Therefore, I tell her about the first criteria for the job that is “CONFIDENT”

Do you have it? On the other hand, do you have enough of confident for It.?

After that, she replies an answer to me. After she taken this course, she will have that enough of confident to facing it.

So here, I have a question here,

“CONFIDENT”

What is a source for confident to us?

Ourselves, other, something?

As I know, the source for confident is come by us.

Because we are ourselves, we know ourselves better than other does.

That is something that we can get an example.

Because of you wear Prada,Gucci and etc, other will think you are beautiful or rich.

If you think of this way,

Then you are stupid.

Maybe that stuff will help up you up as an assist you to cheer up our confident.

However, the main sources are we ourselves, we need to create the confident that own by ourselves. No other given to you.

If your confident are come form other, that mean you are not confident enough for yourself and your life.

So please,

Live your life with your own confident,

If you think, you had no enough of confident, find out what you have lost. Moreover, increment yourself to certain level.

This is your life, no other.

Live with your own life. Please.

“CONFIDENT” this is what people got and don’t.

Do you have that?

This question may easy for certain people to answer it.

But the most frequently answer that we can hear is “I do not know now”

That is ok for everyone; you just need time to figure out only. Somebody maybe just need a short time to know the answer, some else may need to spend their whole life to looking for the answer.

I just wish the people that cannot answer this question, can figure out it as soon as possible. In addition, clear as well.

At the same times, we no need to feel shameful, even other people that can answer this question, but how many percent they can achieve it on their life.

For me, I knew that, want to know what we want in our life, that is easy sometimes, but that may difficult also.

Please, think of it. I know someone may think that. It is not important for them now. However, if you can figure it, then you will know the answer will help you out on everything. That may influence for your whole life.

What you need to do only,

“THINK OF IT”

So have you thought of It.?

If not, just think it.!

Last Friday, I went out to collect something for my salesperson and sent to he’s client.

On the way, I am wondering what was happen on me.

I mostly get into car accident when I am drive. Luckily, recently I drive very slowly on the road. Therefore, that is helping me a lot.

Why?

Why suddenly I feel so tiring?

Before I get in the car, everything is still ok. I felt cheerful.

However, just a different with few minutes, I was felt tiring like a hell.

Because of the tiring, I feel like I am lost on the road. Just see whatever that appears in front of me. However, I just turn into the life conjunction. Do not know the direction that I want to go.

On the spot, I knew that, I am lost in the “lost garden”.

That is a location that easy to go, but I think I am forgotten everything about it already.

Same with the life that we need to make a decision.

At the same time,

Are you clear in your mind? Alternatively, or losing your mind now?

Everyone actually is losing himself or herself in the life now.

Just depend on how there are look for the way out only on short or long time.

Do you lost in the “Lost Garden”

Ask your heart, Try do not lie to yourself.

Thank you.